12 Relationship Tips From Attorneys To Avoid Divorce Marriage is a relationship which can only work if two people are willing to work together to make it successful. For some couples, it doesn’t work and they get frustrated and see divorce as their only option. But before you just give up on your marriage, it’s better to think of something which helps save your marriage. There are family law attorneys that you can go to and they will help you out in these situations. These attorneys help in all sorts of domestic problems and they are there to get you what you want. Below are some tips that an attorney will suggest you for giving your marriage a second chance. 1. Writing Letters It sounds funny to write letters to a person you live with but in some situations, it becomes difficult to talk to your spouse. So, just write down what you feel. Perhaps, your written words can convey your feelings better! 2. Self Evaluation Before you start blaming your spouse for everything wrong in this relationship, you should look at yourself. What are the things that you did wrong that have led you to consider divorce? It’s always better try to improve yourself. 3. Look At the Good Things Rather Than Counting Faults Nobody is perfect and there is no prince charming or Cinderella in real life. Likewise, the person you married to may not be perfect but that doesn’t mean they are bad. Always look at the good things that a person does for you, the best parts of their personality. 4. Kids Are the Ones Who Are Most Affected. Keep Them in Mind If you have children and you are thinking of divorcing, think again. When you have a family, then the decisions that you make affect other members too. Divorce breaks up a family and this affects the children the most. 5. Can You See Your Spouse With Someone Else? If you are thinking of divorce, then imagine your spouse being intimate with someone else. If you can’t even imagine that, then that means there is still some love left in you for your partner and you shouldn’t give that up. If even there is a little hope for the marriage to work, then work on it. 6. Spend Quality Time With Each Other If you have been busy with job or the non-stop house chores and haven’t spend much time with each other, then take a break from your work and go somewhere where you can get some privacy and get to know one another all over again. 7. Spend Some Time Apart Unlike those couples who don’t get much time with each other, there are some people who get too much of each other. They spend so much time doing things together that they lose their sense of individuality. They forget what their individual goals were and what they wanted to become. And this leads to couples wanting divorce. In this case it’s better that you spend some time apart from each other. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. 8. Change of Routine Monotonous lifestyle can make your life boring and one might start blaming the relationship for it. Try and do things out of the ordinary. Make life adventurous and colourful. This will bring back the excitement that was initially there but got lost somewhere. 9. Appreciate Each Other Sometimes noticing one’s hard work and appreciating it is all that is needed to make things better. Appreciate and compliment your spouse and not only to each other but in front of others too. Even a small compliment can make wonders happen. 10. Take Care of Yourself Some men and women stop caring for themselves and their bodies after their marriage. They don’t update their appearance at all. Keep yourself updated, dress well, exercise to keep your body in shape and take care of your health by eating right. Some couples divorce because they fell in love with someone who is better looking than their spouses. So take care of yourself and don’t become lazy. 11. Make Unofficial Contracts Amongst Yourselves Every year make a contract or deal amongst yourselves of what you expect from this relationship and your spouse and how you can make it work. This way, you know what to expect from this marriage. 12. Express Your Love Saying “I love you” shows your partner that even if you aren’t able to show your love everyday, that doesn’t mean you have stopped loving your partner. So, say it every day, it is always good to know that someone loves you. December 4, 2014 | Comments are off | 160945 viewson Family & Personal, Law Tags: relationship tips Next: 5 Great Things About Admin Jobs Previous: A Follower A Day Brings Business Everyday!